Your Dating Goals
When you go into the dating world, it is a good idea to know what sort of dating goals you have. There’s a big difference in seeking marriage/long term commitment versus a short term fling. The funny thing though is that the beginning is often quite similar.
How’s that you ask? Quite simply that you need to sell yourself to the girl first, whether it be for the short or the long term. Most women want a long-term relationship. Even if they don’t, they aren’t willing to lower their standards for short-term fligs (generally).
This means that when you enter the dating world, either way, you need to focus on the main pickup skills. You need to approach women with confidence. You need to take care of yourself, and you need to have decent game when talking to a girl.
Knowing what your intentions are good for yourself. Either way though, if you want to be successful, you still need to be confident and charming. You can’t go into the first date complaining about your work and that you are depressed and expect to get a second date, no matter what.